Did you know that your unconscious mind is like a thermostat that controls the results you get in your life? Have you ever noticed that sometimes when you start to make progress on a goal, you do something that takes you back to where you used to be? This can happen with weight loss, a financial goal, finding a partner, incorporating a healthy habit, or really anything you are trying to change for the better.
The reason this happens is twofold. First, it is because when you start to elevate to the next level or move towards your goal, you unconsciously tell yourself that you don’t deserve it, that you don’t belong there, or that you have been unsuccessful in the past so you will be unsuccessful again. Second, you will recognize that it will take quite a bit of work, that it will be uncomfortable, and that you should stay right where you are which does not involve much effort at all. When these two things happen, you do something that brings you back down to your previous level. It sounds so crazy right? You want something. You work towards it. You make progress and are happy. Then you sabotage yourself and bring yourself back down to where you were when you started.
It’s like your unconscious mind is an internal thermostat that is set at a certain temperature and keeps trying to bring you back to that temperature over and over. With a thermostat, when something changes the temperature of the room (a door opens, a fireplace is turned on), the thermostat continues to adjust it back to the pre-programmed temperature. Your unconscious mind does this with your behaviors, health, finances, career success, relationship success, etc. When you try to change what is happening in a certain area of your life, your unconscious mind, aka your internal thermostat, tries to adjust it back to the pre-programmed level.
The good news is that when you know this, you can change it by doing the following:
When you understand what is happening unconsciously, you can take back control of your mind and manage it. You will no longer run on autopilot, wondering why you are not getting the results you want in your life. You will be able to push through self-doubt and keep moving forward, even when things feel hard. You will It takes some intention and reflection; however, it is worth it if you want to continue to grow, develop, and create new things in your life.
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